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July 13, 2017 by Angela

Simple Living Interview 6: Lisa of Simple and Soul

This month’s simple living interview is Lisa from Simple & Soul. The monthly interviews are designed to give you a glimpse into people’s lives who call themselves minimalists, or are pursuing a simple lifestyle or living slow.

Each month the bloggers are asked the same questions in order to see the similarities and differences in their experiences. It’s a wonderful way to be encouraged in simplifying our own lives! You can read the other interviews HERE.

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Can you introduce yourself to my readers – who you are, where you live, and
what you blog about?

July simple living interview with Lisa at Simple and Soul

My name is Lisa Avellan and I blog at Simple & Soul, a minimalism and simply living website that focuses on the soul more than the stuff.

When I started living with less I immediately felt my soul coming alive and realized that minimalism isn’t about our stuff, it’s about how we lose ourselves in excess and when we decide to live differently we discover our true identity. It’s a journey into letting go of comparison, self-hatred, mistaken identity, and busyness – all of which tend to be at the root of our accumulation of more stuff.

I am a stay-at-home wife and mom in San Diego, California. My husband and I have been married for fourteen years and have two miracle daughters, 5 and 3. I am in the thick of learning about grace, authority, and my place in the kingdom of God and that bleeds into my writing, my parenting and marriage, and my personal journey into soul-healing. Simple living hasn’t been simple, simply because what started as an effort to get rid of clutter turned into exposure of the vices of comparison, negative self talk, expectation and ingratitude.

I love Jesus and simple living is taking me deeper into what love really is. So, I guess I define myself as a seeker of Jesus, a wife and mom, a writer, and a simple girl on a journey.

What initially attracted you to simple living?

Like a lot of people, I came across Joshua Becker’s blog and was hooked! I first heard of him at a conference where he was a breakout speaker, and though I didn’t make it to his breakout session, I made a note to look him up when I got home.

I was just beginning to write my blog at the time and it was a big transition time for me. Writing had been “the thing I did when I was young” and “I don’t think it’s my gift anymore” for twelve years and I finally heard the call to start writing again early in 2015. I was scared and didn’t have a clue of what I really want to share with the world. So, when I found Joshua I really resonated with the ‘less is more’ message. I thought if I got rid of the distractions in my life I’d have a clearer head to write and create.

I like to think I’ve been more on the simple side, I’ve never been a high maintenance kind of girl. But, when I started paying attention to my habits, beliefs, possessions, and attitudes I noticed my inner life certainly wasn’t simple. I couldn’t ignore that I put way too much value on stuff and not enough value on myself. After that realization I couldn’t turn back.

I couldn't ignore that I put way too much value on stuff and not enough value on myself. via @lisamaria #simpleliving #minimalism Click To Tweet

What are the benefits that you have found in simple living?

I think the number one benefit, and probably the most immediate, is clarity. There is a reality that our clutter speaks to us, and we receive the message in a way that harms our ability to be self-aware. Clutter speaks shame over us and we internalize it as a personal indictment. The message we take to heart is that we aren’t good enough because we can’t keep up on the housework. We wonder who we think we really are to pursue our purpose and calling when we can’t control our spending or organize our things. It’s all happening under the surface and we believe there is something inherently wrong with our character – when in truth it’s the clutter that’s stealing our ability to see clearly who we are.

So, the benefit of decluttering and simplifying our thinking, spending, planning, etc. is we immediately silence at least one source of shame. It gives us audience to the voice within that wants to bring life and abundance. Space in our home or work, time on the calendar, presence of mind in the moment bring us into the true reality of the way things are and not the way we are told they should be. It’s a true and life-changing freedom.

You know you want less stress and more freedom but you don't know where to start. Read how Lisa started pursuing a simple life and how you can too.

If someone wanted to start living simply, what advice would you give them?

Start with gratitude. I believe it’s the shortest path to simplicity because when you are grateful for what you already have and who you are, living simply is natural. I think it so important I created a new course called Grateful as a helpful guide to discover gratitude and simplicity. Simply beginning to notice the things you’re grateful for each day can have dramatic effects.

When you are grateful for what you already have and who you are, living simply is natural. @lisamaria #simpleliving #minimalism Click To Tweet

I think it’s important to start knowing why. The easiest way to fall off course is to not have a firm and hopeful vision on what its trying to be achieved. So, I would say write down a few goals, hopes, or reasons why they want to simplify. Is it for peace of mind, to be more present at home, to be prepared for anything? Is it an ethical/moral reason or a personal growth need? Maybe its financial or work related. It’s important to be precise.

Also, I like to tell people to pick one small space in their home – maybe their favorite place – to declutter. I think having small wins is important, and for me it was creating a peaceful and clear space to write. I loved my writing desk in the corner of our bedroom, so I spent an afternoon decluttering all non-writing items (it had become a catch-all) and created a space that invited me to come and write. So, I tell people to choose a small space they love and make it beautiful. It’s a morale booster and easily leads to the next space, and so on.

I think starting with physical clutter is the easiest place to start because it’s so tangible. But, sometimes busyness is the biggest distraction and clearing the calendar clutter is also an important place to begin. In that case, I’d offer this advice:

  1. Write down your top 3 priorities.
  2. Review your commitments and appointments and compare to your priority list.
  3. Say no to everything that doesn’t directly and absolutely fit into your priorities.
  4. Read Essentialism by Greg McKeown.
 July simple living interview with Lisa at Simple and Soul
Get a free resource to begin a Simple & Soul life here.  You can connect with Lisa on Facebook and Instagram. She invites you to get her free 30-page pdf workbook that offers guidance in finding your why and decluttering your home.

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Wife. Mom to three boys. Writer. Reader. Aspiring Minimalist. Lover of chocolate and fitness. She loves blogging about the ways she is finding success in simplifying life one step at a time. Her mantra is "Progress, not Perfection."

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  1. Melinda Mitchell says

    July 13, 2017 at 11:41 am

    Hi Angela, this is neat, I just ran across Lisa for the first time this week, on another blog!!
    She has all the priorities I do.
    Living simply for Jesus!
    Thanks for featuring such a lovely lady!

    • Angela says

      July 14, 2017 at 11:30 am

      What a coincidence Melinda! Glad you resonated with her and her priorities! I definitely did too.

  2. Michele Morin says

    July 16, 2017 at 5:44 am

    “Start with gratitude”
    This was such a pleasant thing to read — I assumed you’d give advice to begin with an action, but instead it was with an attitude. I love that!

    • Angela says

      July 21, 2017 at 8:28 am

      Yes Michele – attitude is always a great place to start, isn’t it?

  3. Jan Wild says

    July 17, 2017 at 2:59 am

    Yes, start with gratitude is the perfect answer. I find it makes a huge amount of difference. Lots of other good tips here too.

    • Angela says

      July 21, 2017 at 8:29 am

      I’m glad it spoke to you Jan!

  4. Jean | DelightfulRepast.com says

    July 17, 2017 at 11:58 am

    Angela, I loved this interview with Lisa! I’m delighted to have “found” both of you this morning. I say No to most interviews, but this is one I would definitely say Yes to – something that really resonates with me. Looking forward to digging into both blogs this week.

    • Angela says

      July 21, 2017 at 8:29 am

      I’m so glad Jean. Thank you for reading and commenting!

  5. Sue from Sizzling Towards 60 & Beyond says

    July 17, 2017 at 6:18 pm

    I really enjoyed reading your interview with Lisa, Angela. My word for the year is ‘simplify’ and I really connected with all you were discussing. I think I’m on the right track after reading your post. Thanks for sharing with us at #overthemoon and look forward to you linking up again next week. Have a lovely day.

    • Angela says

      July 21, 2017 at 8:30 am

      Thank you Sue! That is a wonderful word!

  6. Heather Keet says

    July 18, 2017 at 1:15 am

    I am a huge fan of a lack of clutter! I try to simplify everything to minimize my stress. #DreamTeam

    • Angela says

      July 21, 2017 at 8:31 am

      Lack of clutter really does help with simplifying and minimizing stress doesn’t it? Thanks for reading and commenting Heather!

  7. Theresa @DearCreatives says

    July 18, 2017 at 3:22 pm

    Love this interview. Thanks for sharing at the Inspiration Spotlight Pinned & sharing.

    • Angela says

      July 21, 2017 at 8:27 am

      Thank you Theresa!

  8. Pen says

    July 19, 2017 at 3:02 am

    Excellent interview. Thank you. I will check out ‘Essentialism’. Pen x #KCACOLS

    • Angela says

      July 21, 2017 at 8:27 am

      I’m reading it now too Pen!

  9. Gentle Joy Homemaker says

    July 19, 2017 at 8:57 am

    Interesting post…. simple living is a great idea.

  10. jeremy@thirstydaddy says

    July 19, 2017 at 9:12 pm

    A lot to think about here. Appreciation for what you have should also come before acquisition of more #familyfun

    • Angela says

      July 21, 2017 at 8:26 am

      Great point Jeremy!

  11. Lou says

    July 19, 2017 at 9:33 pm

    I love this interview! Funny how attached we get to our stuff we don’t need. I have been thinking about starting a minimalist lifestyle to free away from all the clutter. It’s hard though since I’m a review blogger, but still I want to look into it.

    #ProductReviewParty

    • Angela says

      July 21, 2017 at 8:25 am

      I think any simplifying is better than none Lou! See what feels right for you.

  12. Lexie says

    July 20, 2017 at 10:38 am

    Thank you for sharing this interview. I could definitely use some simplification in my life – we probably all could.
    <3

    • Angela says

      July 21, 2017 at 8:25 am

      Absolutely! Simplifying is a journey – one we’re never “through” with since we’re always growing and changing.

  13. Robin Revis Pyke says

    July 20, 2017 at 11:28 am

    Wonderful post! I too find myself placing too much value on stuff and not enough value on myself. I’m in a season of growth as I learn or re-learn that I have value. I love how you found more clarity by decluttering. I am somewhat of a new blogger (April 2016). I felt God leading me to create a platform to share His word and connect like-minded women. There are days that I just can’t seem to put the words on the paper. After reading your post, I’m placing clarity on my prayer list! Thank you for sharing.

    • Angela says

      July 21, 2017 at 8:24 am

      It sounds like you’re at a beautiful place Robin. Thanks for sharing! I’m glad that the post resonated with you.

  14. Annette, 3 Little Buttons says

    July 20, 2017 at 6:30 pm

    What a great interview, and very refreshing too. I always find that feeling cluttered in ourselves usually goes hand in hand with actual physical clutter around us. #dreamteam

    • Angela says

      July 21, 2017 at 8:23 am

      I agree Annette that physical and mental clutter do go hand in hand. So important to work at decluttering both!

  15. candy says

    July 20, 2017 at 10:30 pm

    First we must change how we think before we can change how we live.

    • Angela says

      July 21, 2017 at 8:22 am

      Yes Candy! Changing our mindset is key!

  16. Karen | TwoTinyHands says

    July 22, 2017 at 3:57 am

    It’s always nice to learn about new bloggers. I find you can learn so much from them. I think we can all take a leaf from simple living practices, we let modern life clutter ours so easily! ‪Thank you for linking up to the #familyfunlinky‬

    • Angela says

      July 22, 2017 at 12:32 pm

      You’re absolutely right Karen!

  17. Carol ("Mimi") says

    July 24, 2017 at 4:01 pm

    Thanks for granting this interview. Your points are clear concerning simple and grateful living. You place value on authenticity, rather than accumulation of material goods. Thank you for linking up at The Blogger’s Pit Stop. I’m sharing your link on social media.
    Carol (“Mimi”) from Home with Mimi

  18. Crummy Mummy says

    July 25, 2017 at 9:52 am

    I don’t understand how a blogger can live simply though – there’s always too much to do! #KCACOLS

  19. Tina at Mommynificent says

    July 25, 2017 at 8:34 pm

    That was a great and very inspiring interview! Thanks so much for sharing it at Booknificent Thursday on Mommynificent.com!
    Tina

  20. Jenny (Accidental Hipster Mum) says

    July 27, 2017 at 9:36 am

    I’m going to use these tips to try and declutter this weekend, I’m in desperate need of it, I’m such a hoarder!

    Thanks so much for linking up at #KCACOLS. Hope you come back again next time

  21. Acorn Books says

    July 27, 2017 at 6:32 pm

    Some really interesting points here about decluttering. I particularly like the point about being grateful for what you have. #kcacols

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