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August 13, 2015 by Angela

Y.O.L.O: You Only Live Once

My sons are 13, 11, and 5 years old. They love to shout, Y.O.L.O and other phrases that I am usually clueless about. It generally irritates me because they say it in response to everything.

Recently though, I realized that my sons offer me daily wisdom in how to approach life through their sassy retorts. They don’t realize that they’re offering bits of wisdom. They’re just doing their thing, being their genuine selves.

You Only Live Once

Y.O.L.O: You Only live once

My 13-year-old son’s favorite thing to say is “You only live once!” aka “YOLO!”. It used to irk me because he says it in response to almost every question or statement addressed to him. However, I’m starting to appreciate the sentiment behind the seemingly flippant statement.

My son usually says it with a shrug in response to a correction or suggestion about how he could have handled things differently. I’m starting to appreciate his lightheartedness towards life, and his ability to let mistakes roll off his back. He’s willing to try new things and doesn’t worry about how it turns out. He doesn’t beat himself up for doing the wrong thing or saying the wrong thing, he accepts the results and moves on.

I frequently visit the would’ve, could’ve, should’ves in life. What am I missing in the present because I’m stuck in the past or worrying about the future? YOLO – you only live once, so don’t ruminate on the past or worry about the future.

A.N.G.T.F.T.

My 11-year-old son’s favorite saying is “Ain’t nobody got time for that” aka “ANGTFT”. My sons have abbreviated this saying because ain’t nobody got time to say, “ain’t nobody got time for that”. Here’s how this saying is usually used:

Me:  “Your room needs a 5 minute pick up today”

My son, with incredulous look on his face, “What! ANGTFT Mom!”

My first instinct is to correct him, but I’m beginning to recognize the beauty in that response. My son usually has a plan for the day the night before – he is clear on what he wants to do, when he wants to do it. His passion and enthusiasm about his schedule is admirable.

How many times do I put my personal top priorities at the start of the day’s schedules? Do I pursue my passions with such unswerving determination?

Today was the BEST DAY EVER!

My 5-year-old son never ceases to amaze me with his energy and positivity. He will frequently run to greet me at the door with a big hug and state, “Today was the BEST DAY EVER!”

He hasn’t just returned from Disney World, or even the local children’s museum. He has just spent time with a loved one, frequently doing very simple activities. He could have been with his grandmother visiting the local pool, or with his dad in the yard building a makeshift fort with salvaged wood. He could have been with me, baking a batch of cookies. After each of those days, he will exclaim with the same amount of enthusiasm that “Today was the BEST DAY EVER!”

He has an innate sense of gratitude which is renewed daily. Whether he realizes or not, he values relationships over things. His joy when receiving new toys is never matched by the enthusiasm he shows after spending time with his loved ones.

Can I say the same thing about myself? Is my sense of gratitude and joy renewed every day by simple pleasures and relationships?

What about you? What have you learned from the everyday sayings of children?

Shared at: Monday Madness, Let’s Get Real, Small Victories Sunday Link Up

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Wife. Mom to three boys. Writer. Reader. Aspiring Minimalist. Lover of chocolate and fitness. She loves blogging about the ways she is finding success in simplifying life one step at a time. Her mantra is "Progress, not Perfection."

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  1. Cynthia @craftoflaughter says

    August 13, 2015 at 2:10 pm

    Today is the best day ever is my favorite of all. It’s music to my ears when I hear it

    • Angela says

      August 13, 2015 at 11:22 pm

      Absolutely – I never get tired of his sense of wonder. Thanks for reading and commenting Cynthia.

  2. Madelaine says

    August 13, 2015 at 5:31 pm

    I love this post!!!! It made me laugh so hard because my son says something similar like you gotta be kidding me on everything!

    • Angela says

      August 13, 2015 at 11:21 pm

      I’m so glad you enjoyed it and could relate!

  3. Kim Munoz says

    August 13, 2015 at 7:53 pm

    I love the way kids think. Once upon a time we thought like that. There were so many more important things to do than what our parents needed us to do. If only being an adult could be that easy. I guess to some points it can be. Dishes and cleaning can wait, a little while. Reminding myself to sit back and read instead of obsessing over cleaning. Your kids are right. We do only life once. And there are so many things we give our time to that we shouldn’t. But someone has to be the adult right? LOL

    • Angela says

      August 13, 2015 at 11:21 pm

      Kim, it’s such a delicate balance isn’t it? How can we be adults without losing that sense of wonder and adventure?

  4. Carla says

    August 13, 2015 at 9:14 pm

    I love this post, especially the part about YOLO. I am a huge should’ve, could’ve person and I hate it! We all need to embrace some of your son’s attitude!

    • Angela says

      August 13, 2015 at 11:18 pm

      Agreed! Out of the mouth of…teens.

  5. jill conyers says

    August 13, 2015 at 9:15 pm

    I love love today is the best day ever!

    • Angela says

      August 13, 2015 at 11:17 pm

      Isn’t it sweet, Jill? He says it in the most adorable and genuine way.

  6. katy allred says

    August 14, 2015 at 11:12 am

    Good for you for pausing to hear the wisdom of your children! I love #2, I use that with my husband all the time lol

    • Angela says

      August 15, 2015 at 10:28 am

      Thanks Katy! Practicing staying in the present!

  7. Daisy @ Simplicity Relished says

    August 15, 2015 at 7:22 pm

    This is so sweet! You know, I love the wisdom that you see in those acronyms. I usually cringe when I hear “YOLO” too, because it often feels as though our generation uses it as an excuse to be reckless. But I love your perspective. Also, kids sometimes say the most insightful things!

  8. Gaye @CalmHealthySexy says

    August 18, 2015 at 8:50 pm

    This is a great post, Angela. So much fun and wisdom from your sons. A friend just told me about his vacation in Colorado, where his 3-year-old son got to fish, hike and ride miniature ponies every day. The son kept saying to the dad, over and over, “Dad, aren’t we having fun?” And my friend replied every time, “Yeah, buddy, we are really having fun!”

    • Angela says

      August 18, 2015 at 11:45 pm

      That’s so sweet Gaye. Thanks for sharing!

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